Absolutely!  Here is a solid approach to what’s called dream incubation by a woman named Ruth Refakes.  She has been refining and using this method for decades.  Her method echoes many of the same ways I use with clients to discern what their dreams mean.  This is a way to ask for specific guidance.  There’s just one catch.  Your dream may answer your inquiry  – or it may direct your attention to a completely different area of your life.  Your attention may be on business or money or something practical while the deeper wisdom in your own unconscious may remind you that a relationship needs your attention.  Nevertheless, asking for help is at least the beginning of a conversation and relationship with your deeper self.